“For as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.” Proverbs 23:7
Breaking toxic mindsets is not an easy task. It is a transformative journey that can be overcome, with the help of spiritual guidance. The word of God offers key principles to help us break free from the lies of the enemy, that seek to hold us captive in our minds. As believers, we must recognize the battle begins in our minds. According to Romans 12:2, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by the testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
When we choose to remain in toxic relationships, it will allow us to see the toxicity in others, but not ourselves. “The Bible reminds us “Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character.” 1 Corinthians 15:33. We must demolish argument and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5. Anything toxic that we are presented with, that is contrary to God’s word, we are to reject.
Relationships are needed, but we must enter those relationships with great caution! God wanted to bless Abraham in Genesis 12:1, but he needed to get him away from the familiar. We must be willing to leave the familiar also, Abraham was asked to leave his country and his kindred. They influence your mindset, as well. Sometimes God needs us to separate from what we are trying, to hold on to. This can also create chaos in relationships. Living in an environment that promotes constant toxicity will eventually get in you. We must pray for discernment. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lead to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path.” Proverbs 3:5-6.
Breaking toxic mindsets will require a conscious effort to replace negative thoughts with those that reflect godly principles and values. Through prayer, meditation, and studying scripture, we can gradually replace destructive thought patterns with a mindset grounded in faith, hope, and love. Ephesians 4:22-24 says “You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off the old self, which is corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” This scripture promotes a mindset shift towards constructive thinking, that will foster emotional well-being and the resilience to move forward.
This scripture underscores the importance of shedding toxic mindsets rooted in deception and embracing a renewed perspective aligned with God’s truth. Breaking free from toxic mindsets involves intentional self-reflection, repentance, and the continuous pursuit of a mindset that aligns with the transformative power of God’s Word.
In closing, Philippians 4:8 encourages believers to focus on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable. By aligning our thoughts with these positive attributes, we can actively combat toxic mindsets, grow spiritually, and be a beacon of hope for others.
Prayer,
Heavenly Father,
The one who knows all and sees all things. Help us to become all that you would have us to be. May we demonstrate integrity and love for one another… for we are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s own possession. As a result, help us show others your goodness, for in your great mercy you have called us out of darkness into your wonderful light! In Jesus Name. Amen. 1Peter 2:9.